Courtroom etiquette
Courts expect self-represented litigants to behave with professional decorum, and the rules apply equally to them and to attorneys. Most courts ban photos, recordings, or streaming without a written court order.
- Arrive 30 minutes early for security and parking.
- Dress as for a job interview: no hats, shorts, or tank tops.
- Silence your phone. Don't bring food, drink, or gum.
- Check in with the clerk or bailiff and say which case you're on.
- Stand when the judge enters or leaves, and when you speak (unless seated at the witness stand).
- Say "Your Honor." Speak only to the judge, not to the other party.
- Never interrupt the judge. If the judge interrupts you, stop and listen, then answer the question asked.
- Answer "yes" or "no" out loud. Say "I don't know" or "I don't understand" if true.
- Don't argue with a ruling. Say "Thank you, Your Honor."
- Children should not come to court unless the court asks.
- Need an interpreter or accommodation? Ask the clerk or coordinator before your court date.
Zoom and virtual hearings
- Check the court's page or ask the coordinator for the Zoom link, meeting ID, and any judge-specific rules. Join 10–15 minutes early and test your camera, mic, and connection.
- Use your full name as your display name. Wait in the waiting room until admitted.
- Sit in a quiet, private, well-lit spot. Use a laptop or a propped-up phone, not one you hold. Don't join while driving.
- Dress as you would for court. Stay muted unless you are speaking. Keep your camera on unless the judge says otherwise.
- Don't record, screenshot, or stream the hearing .
- No one else should coach you off-camera. Witnesses usually wait out of the room until called.
- Sharing exhibits: follow the court's instructions. Many courts require exhibits to be exchanged and sent to the coordinator before the hearing. Name each file clearly (for example, "Petitioner Ex. 1 – Pay stub.pdf"). Practice screen sharing beforehand. Share only the exhibit window, not your whole screen, and close other tabs and notifications. Ask "Your Honor, may I share my screen to show Exhibit 1?" before you share, and stop sharing when you're done.
- If you get disconnected, rejoin immediately. If you can't, call the court coordinator.
Based on TexasLawHelp.org Tips for the Courtroom, plus typical Texas local rules. Practice with the Virtual Judge
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